The Mini Union and triggering the Divine Masculine to complete their healing

There often comes a stage towards the end of the harmonisation period when the energies become balanced enough for a mini union. This is the final part of the harmonisation of the blended energies.

At this stage both the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine will have recognised the soul connection between them and will no longer be denying it to themselves. You will be in an energetic union at this stage. It is highly likely that feelings will have been revealed to the Divine Feminine to a degree but not a given. There will have definitely been an opening up towards what the Divine Masculine is feeling or that they feel that they don’t want to lose the connection you both have, if not a full blown confession of love. At this stage the DM is likely to have done a fair amount of work on themselves in respect of understanding the connection and in their own healing work and it will come after a period of separation that has really got them thinking about the connection. The separation does not have to be long, it may have only been a month or two since last contact. During the harmonisation period the separations tend to be shorter so it is more likely to be weeks or months since last contact.

At this stage the Divine Feminine is likely to have come into her own inner union and be in a really good place herself. She understands this connection totally, she understands her worth and how she deserves to be treated. She is no longer trying to control the connection and the pace of the union and indeed is quite happy to let the union come in slowly if that is what is needed. If the Divine Masculine does not contact for a week or so that is fine with her, she will allow him to set the pace without any pressure from her.

At first it can seem that this is the permanent union that is coming in slowly and it is a big step towards it, but it is also a final test for the Divine Feminine to really stand in her power as the Divine Feminine, who has worked hard to heal herself. It's a time to put into practice all she has learnt. The energies are not in constant balance though at this stage and although the Divine Feminine will be more consistent in the 5D energies, the Divine Masculine still has work to do to maintain himself at this level, he will still be feeling the lack within himself at times. He will start to revert back to old habits and behaviours as a result. The main difference this time is the Divine Feminine is wise to these behaviours and knows that this is not good enough for her and as she is now in her power she stands up to her Divine Masculine. It is at this point that rather than let her Divine Masculine keep her hanging or messing her around, she will be clear in what she expects from him and no longer afraid to tell him if what he is offering is not what she deserves. She is no longer afraid to speak up in case she loses him. She will say it as it is and if she needs to walk away as part of this then so be it. It doesn't mean she doesn't love him only that she has realised that she needs to be treated in the right way. The Divine Feminine has realised she has risen too far now to accept anything less than what she deserves; she can no longer lower herself for less than this, regardless of the connection shared.

It is now time for a big shift in the connection. As part of the Divine Feminine standing up for herself in a position of power she is sending a message to her Divine Masculine that it is time for him to complete his work on himself; he needs to complete the healing needed so that he can rise into the 5D energies on a consistent basis and be fully in his power. He needs to match her higher energies now for them to be in permanent union, there is no other way. The Divine Masculine may be angry at first, he may accuse the divine feminine of trying to make him feel guilty, but these are old 3D behaviours. As these initial feelings subside he will start feeling more angry towards himself for acting in a way that caused his divine feminine to walk away. He will start to feel her loss and feel sadness for losing her. Before the Divine Feminine walked away after standing her ground and setting her healthy boundaries clearly, he thought it could control all this and come and go as he pleased. The connection was too strong for her to walk away surely? Wrong, the connection is not about a physical relationship but about both Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine standing in their power; it is about becoming the best version of yourself; it is about understanding your true worth and not allowing others to treat you any less than this; it is about your inner union. The physical relationship is a bonus if both parties to the connection achieve their own inner union first and stand in their truth and knowing of the divine being they really are.

After the Divine Masculine simmers down from this he does then realise that he wants this connection to continue more than anything. There may be a period first where he still tries to hide from physically doing the work he needs to do. As a result he may hide himself in work, partying, dating others or any other distraction but the feeling does not leave him that he is not living in his truth. He is not following his soul path and it will start to eat at him, and if he continues to ignore it then it will trigger a dark night of the soul for him. He will finally start to open up to others around him about what he is going through and what he is feeling, which is a big step for him as a lot of divine masculine’s have not been used to doing this in the past. Suddenly though he feels he needs to speak to others, whether it’s friends, family or seeking therapy. It is more likely that the Divine Masculine will seek physical types of healing and this is where the Divine Feminine can help them as they will be more included to seek energetic healing. The Divine Feminine can choose to send energetic healing to her masculine through the Guides and Angels and ask for her Divine Masculine’s higher self to accept it on his behalf to help him through this phase. The Divine Masculine finally does his work so that he can finally come into his power into union in himself and claim union with his Divine Feminine.

There is no set timescale as to how long this stage will take, as this is an individual thing. It will also depend on how resistant the Divine Masculine is to accept the work he needs to do and the pace of how fast he works through the healing. The Divine Feminine has already been through it and it’s important to remember that she also resisted in the beginning to the healing she needed to do. She continued to try and chase the Divine Masculine without doing any work on herself, trying everything she could think of before realising that the usual methods will not work here and finally settling down to the healing work she needed to do. It is the same for the Divine Masculine, he has to come to that realisation too; it’s just that they come to it in a different way. Whilst the Divine Feminine has come to this after realising all her action has come to nothing in getting the Divine Masculine to commit and that she needs to step back; the Divine Masculine comes to this after realising all his inaction is keeping him stuck, that he needs to rescue himself from this and take some action if he wants to have the life he wants. He will then work hard on himself to remove the blocks he has to achieving this.

The advice to the Divine Feminine at this stage is just to continue to work on your own life and creating your own dreams whilst your Divine Masculine completes his healing. Send him love, light and healing energetically but other than that leave him be. It is something he needs to complete for himself, he needs that sense of achievement as part of understanding his own worth. He needs to understand he can do this in his own right and once he has done this he will return to his Divine Feminine.