I make references to ‘he’ and ‘she’ here but be aware we all have Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine energy within us regardless of whether we are in a physical male or female body. As Twin Flames part of what you need to do to bring in your union is to heal and balance both these energies within yourself. Therefore please do not ignore any part of the advice given thinking it is only relevant to the other person as you will need to work though whatever is brought up for you in both these energies. The Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine energies heal in very different ways.
The Divine Feminine needs solitude to heal and find her true power. She needs to find that inner goddess that exists and find that worth within herself rather than looking to outside to get this validation of worth and acceptance. It is only in this solitude she finds her worth and wholeness and this is why the Divine Masculine will reject you, deep down it is an act of love so that you can discover your own greatness; you will continue to look elsewhere for this otherwise. When she is healed, she knows that she has the power to do anything she wants, she is a co-creator of what she experiences. She manifests things in her life and realises she is doing this. She relies on no-one to provide for her needs as she realises that she has everything within her to provide for these needs herself. Please remember that allowing someone to do something for you is totally different from someone fulfilling a need. The former is about accepting and you need to balance accepting and giving.
In a Twin Flame relationship the person in the Divine Feminine energy needs to be in a place of not needing their Divine Masculine counterpart to fill any holes that exist. You have to have healed enough to full those holes yourself and know that you are whole. A healed Divine Feminine may still want her counterpart but not need him anymore and that is why when you have healed this energy you can let go of any expectation of how the relationship will work out or indeed if a physical relationship really matters to you anymore.
In contrast, the Divine Masculine needs the Divine Feminine to heal. This is often why the Divine Feminine will heal first as she needs to supports the Divine Masculine in his healing. For the Divine Masculine to heal, he needs to go into his heart space and learn to open up his heart to feeling unconditional love. The Divine Masculine energy is very logical, analytical and listens more to the ego. When the Divine Masculine is ready to heal he needs to feel the unconditional love from the Divine Feminine as it is this love which helps the Divine Masculine to open up their heart, feel their emotions and heal. This healing will start to take place regardless of whether you are in separation or together physically as it is the energetic frequency of this unconditional love that is doing the healing. When the Divine Masculine is healed he won’t be scared of this unconditional love anymore, he will be able to feel into his emotions and process them, not feeling afraid of them. In a Twin Flame relationship this allows the person in the Divine Masculine energy to move forward in expressing himself and making a commitment towards the Divine Feminine. It will not always be the case that the Divine Masculine will rush forward and declare their undying love, you may find that things happen in stages, opening up bit by bit, sharing more about how they are feeling until they are finally feeling safe enough to totally open up to the Divine Feminine and feel this unconditional love that is emanating towards them.
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